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I'd always paid lip service to the idea of "oh, marriage is hard!

" but when your friends are actually in the shit, you're like, oh, marriage is .

When you're traveling, you're out of those grooves, so there's much less pressure. But my most recent date was in America, in New York. I think in the last few years what I've realized about dating is that it's easy for me to see a date and understand that if I put some energy into it—tried a little harder, made it a little easier—I could turn some of these second and third dates into that.

And that's when dating becomes a job, in the sense of: my job is writing.

I prioritize my writing because it's what I like to do, it pays my bills, and this is how I prefer to spend my time.

Because there's nothing you can do in life that's going to solve everything for you, including children and marriage. Zan: That's what you're looking forward to!

Particularly when we're so raised on storytelling, and everything being wrapped up at some point, it's easy to think: when does it get tied up so I can stop thinking about it? It's a really scary, really hard way to think about it, to think: There's not gonna be the moment that fixes, solves or changes everything. This idea that there's a solution has been so ingrained in women's heads in every way possible. Glynnis: Every time I find myself feeling bad about my own life, I think about the centuries and centuries of women who would have committed murder to not have to go out on a date; to be able to have dinner on their own or have a paycheck that they didn't have to share, or have the amount of children they wanted or didn't want. And going home alone is not the worst thing that could be happening to me, some nights.