Interracial dating black women and white men
Unlike other dating experts, hers is a success story. Here’s what she had to say: Candice: Can you tell us a little bit about yourself and how you’ve become an advocate for interracial couples?Christelyn: As with most advocacy, my motivation comes from having my own experiences.One White woman used social media to blast a few Black men who are fans of #teamswirl.But before we go any further, to be clear, Tiffany Jolene has no issue with interracial dating, but she does have an issue with Black men who date White women because they are “more submissive.” Peep what she said on Facebook below: “If your primary reason for dating White women is because you’re under the self centered delusion that they are more ‘submissive’ and understanding of your inherent refusal to get your s*** together without the help of a romantic partner, I am not the Caucasian for you,” said Tiffany Jolene in a Facebook post.
Christelyn: Black women have a unique set of challenges in the dating market.
I’ll admit there’s still some hesitancy to connect offline by both genders—I know this because they write me constantly about how to overcome it.
But meeting online allows for everyone to get to know one another in a low-pressure way, and build if there is a desire to do so on both ends.
No one is suggesting Black women avoid black men altogether. We’ve been trying to “work through our issues” for over a century.
Why can’t it be Black men and all men, instead of black men or no one at all? I’m not willing to keep sacrificing my sisters for the sake of the cause.I often hear the old, tired line that black folks need to work on themselves before they can mingle romantically with other races. You can still advocate for change and love your blackness if you have a non-black spouse.